Who doesn’t want the clothing they invest in to last longer? Gone are the days when clothing was cotton, silk or wool only. These days you can have an item that’s part nylon, part polyester, part lyocell and part rayon jersey — and there are multiple types of each of these materials! It can be so confusing trying to figure out how to wash certain items to keep them looking new and as wearable as they day you brought them home.
This guide is all about how wash everything and anything in your closet, from clothing to bags to shoes to jewelry — including items that the labels say not to wash. Dry cleaning is expensive, but your laundry bill doesn’t have to be.
The full guide, inside…
Before we begin, let me start this post with a disclaimer: All of the advice below is based on my personal washing experience and is not meant as an expert guide. Washing items against clothing label directions can be risky. My general advice is that for any clothing that you’d be devastated to lose, follow the label directions exactly.
That said, many clothing retailers mark their clothing as “Dry Clean” or “Dry Clean Only” when it doesn’t have to be cleaned that way. Why do they do this? To cover their butts! I don’t know about you but growing up I never learned how to do laundry and as a young adult that led to a lot of trial and error, and some accidentally destroyed clothing. No retailer wants to be remembered for that shirt that shrank the first time you wore it or the skirt that got destroyed in the washer. So they slap a dry clean label on their clothing and exhale, hoping customers won’t ruin their synthetic-content clothing that may be a bit tricky to preserve.
In truth, while delicate materials such as suede, taffeta, velvet, fur, down and anything pleated (think pleated skirts) shouldn’t be washed, most everything else can be. That rayon dress that feels like silk? You can probably wash it. That cashmere sweater? You can probably wash it. That lightweight wool skirt? You can probably wash it too. It’s all about knowing how to wash your items with the right cleaning agent.
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This post is divided into sections for easy reference. You can click on any of the links directly below to go to that part of the post.
Materials and how to wash them
How do I know what water temperature to use?
Your guide to care label laundry symbols
How to properly load a washing machine
My favorite laundry detergents, pre-treaters and drying aids
Some final tips & tricks for washing and drying your clothing
Materials and how to wash them
There are so many man-made clothing materials these days and each one has a different care regimen needed to keep it looking new and fresh. Below is a mini-guide divided by material.
ACRYLIC: Used mostly for sweaters, this man-made material approximates the look and feel of either wool or cashmere and is known to pill heavily because of its short fibers. In general, you’ll want to wash these on cold or the “bright colors” cycle. Once the cycle is done, gently pull the acrylic item at each edge to stretch it back into shape. Lay on a flat surface to dry. For stains, I recommend pre-treating with this spray. If your item is stained you can wash it in warm water but be sure to catch the load as soon as it’s done to gently stretch your item back into shape. A cold wash can be left for up to 45 minutes before being attended to. If your acrylic item is pilling, use this sweater shaver on it when dry.BAGS: See leather, nylon and suede sections.
CREPE: See silk.DENIM: To wash or not to wash denim? Sources vary on this. I’m not a denim expert but in my personal opinion it’s pretty gross to wear something that’s never been washed or cleaned. So while I stretch the time my denim washings as long as possible (mostly by sticking the jeans in the freezer in a Zip-Loc overnight), I do wash them at least once every two months. For denim that is less than 90% cotton, I wash on cold or “bright colors” with my regular detergent and then dry them completely. For denim that is 90% cotton or higher, I wash on cold or “bright colors” with my regular detergent and then air dry them. Air drying is critical for high-cotton jeans! They will shrink a size or so if you try to dry them and may not stretch back to their original size.
JERSEY: There are two types of jersey — cotton jersey (much nicer!) and rayon jersey (not nearly as nice). For cotton jersey, you can wash it on any cycle (white or stained items should be hot, light colors on warm and bright or dark colors on cold) and then dry it on medium. Rayon jersey is much less dense and more susceptible to permanent staining and material breakdown. To help mine last longer, I pre-treat it and then wash it on warm wash-cold rinse (aka permanent press). I dry it on low to damp dry and then air dry it the rest of the way.JEWELRY: I think we all know you can’t put jewelry in the washing machine, but for a long time I was afraid to even attempt cleaning mine because I feared I’d destroy it. But now that I have some family heirloom pieces, cleaning is necessity. I’m so glad I discovered this inexpensive and complete kit, which is safe on fine jewelry and costume pieces too! It works beautifully on everything from natural soft stones to your platinum wedding ring. Even better it’s Made in the USA of non-toxic materials! Use caution on costume jewelry, especially thinly plated pieces.
RAYON: Rayon is probably my least favorite clothing material because it tends to break down quickly. You can’t make rayon be as hardy as, say, cotton, but you can make it last a little longer by only washing it on cold and then air drying it. Heat is rayon’s enemy so the dryer and hot washes are a no-go if you want your item to last longer than, say, a year.SHOES: In my early 20s I used to foolishly throw out shoes that seemed too dirty to wear anymore. Now I know so much better — that nearly any kind of shoe can be cleaned well! Sneakers made of mesh, nylon, knits or anything but leather can be thrown into a cold wash with any kind of detergent, air dried and will come out looking like new! (And if you use a deodorizing agent, even better.) Also, although I can’t say exactly why, this sponge is a miracle on sneakers! Shoes made from leather, suede, silk or other materials can be cleaned carefully using a kit like this one or this one. You should always test the inside of a shoe before using a kit, because colors on shoes are more likely to bleed or darken than on clothing. See also the LEATHER and SUEDE sections.
SPANDEX: If you work out, you’re probably very familiar with spandex, but even if you’re not very active clothing like jeans and even blouses may have spandex in them these days. To keep the fibers in spandex elastic, you’ll want to avoid heat whenever possible. That said, I usually wash my spandex on cold — I separate lights and darks or brights as the colors will bleed — and then tumble it dry, because I only have so much room on my air dry rack! Drying spandex in the dryer will cause it to fade. If you want to preserve your spandex for as long as possible, air dry it.SUEDE: You can’t wash wash suede in a washing machine but it can be cleaned. You don’t want to use water with suede unless absolutely necessary. Soft circular motions with the proper brush or vigorous motions work wonders for scuffs. For tough stains, an eraser is highly effective!
How do I know what water temperature to use?
Water temperature is key to the long-term preservation of your clothing. If you’re unsure, cold water is the safest way to go. In general, here’s a quick guide.
COLD WATER: Think of cold water as color preservation for your clothing. Denim, jewel tones, color mixes, sweaters, your athletic, active or yoga gear, sweaters and such should all be washed in cold water.
WARM WATER: As a kid, I learned ‘warm water is right for whites and brights!’ Especially when stained, delicate items such as blouses have a better chance of coming clean in a warm wash. If your machine allows it you can do a warm wash and a cold spin — on most washers this is also known as the permanent press cycle. The exception to this rule is for white socks and towels; as you’ll see below you want to wash those on hot.
HOT WATER: Disinfecting central! Wash things like socks, towels, and heavily stained items. For stained colorful items, you’ll want to use a color-safe bleach or this incredibly effective pre-treater.
Your guide to care label laundry symbols
What exactly do those little pictures on the care label of your clothing mean? Wonder no further…
Or sometimes one, two or three dots.
Want more laundry symbol definitions? This handy graphic has nearly all of them explained!
How to properly load a washing machine
This may come as a surprise to you but there is in fact a right and a wrong way to load a washing machine. Mainly, you want to make sure your washer is never overfilled or stuffed to capacity. Why? First of all it’s hard for a washer to efficiently work when it’s overfull. Secondly, your clothing may not come all the way clean (due to packed in clothing getting hits and misses of cleaning agent, water and agitation). Items can end up with soap stains, permanent streaks or simply not come clean. But worst of all, you can actually damage your washer if it’s too full! During the spin cycle your washing machine uses counterweights to keep it upright. A too-full washer can damage the balancing system over time, causing your washer to shake violently or crack the washing basin. You’ll know if your washer is too full if you can’t move items around freely with your hands or, ahem, if you have trouble closing the door without something slipping out or blocking the washing machine door from closing properly.
Items such as denim, cashmere and wool benefit from being turned inside out before washing, unless stained. Never lose a sock again by using mesh laundry bags, which are also great for bras or anything with hooks.
My favorite laundry detergents, pre-treaters and drying aids
With years of clothing-washing experience under my belt, I have discovered through trial & error what items work and don’t work to get my clothing clean in the washer. From removing stains and odors to keeping clothing in like-new condition, these are my tried, tested and true recommendations.
These days there is a big push towards organic cleaners of all kinds. But I must say that organic does not necessarily mean safer, healthier or even tested! Some so-called organic brands take advantage of marketing double-speak to try to sell us on products that have not undergone the rigorous testing processes cleaners with chemicals have. Chemicals does not equal unsafe! Many chemical compounds in cleaners are naturally occurring, but marketers for some ‘organic’ brands would have you think chemicals are unhealthy or dangerous. For example you may be familiar with a compound you encounter everyday safely — di-hydrogen oxide? Or as we call it in everyday parlance, water?
Please note that all products listed in this section don’t use this kind of offensive marketing double speak.
You may be wondering, do I need all of the cleaners listed in each section? No. I’ve simply listed out all of my favorites here and you can pick and choose the ones you’d like to purchase from each section.
Borax — Without a doubt, Borax is the one cleaning tool I use the most. First discovered in 1881 in Death Valley (under its scientific name, sodium borate), there’s a reason Borax has been in use for over 130 years! For clothing, I primarily use Borax to lift stains and eliminate odors (the latter of which it is amazing at), but it’s also great for cleaning around the home and repelling pests such as ants.
Biz Stain and Odor Eliminator — This stuff is amazing for getting out poo stains and blood stains. Several of my mommy friends swear by this stuff to clean onesies, cloth diapers and the like. I’ve used it to clean towels and small rugs after pet incidents too, and to clean my boyfriend’s shirts when he’s accidentally bled post-shave on collars and such. You don’t need to use very much, we’ve had the same bottle for over a year now. One more thing it’s great at — getting out sweat stains from places like underarms!
Shout Advanced Ultra Gel Brush — I first used this product at a hotel after I’d stupidly spilled red wine on a light-colored dress. I didn’t have time to wash the dress right away but the concierge promised me that if I treated the dress that night and then washed it within a week, the stain would be gone. I was dubious to say the last, but she was right! This stuff is great because I don’t have to insta-wash stains on most clothing, I can treat and wash at my leisure. It’s also safe on colorfast clothing, though you’ll want to treat those just before washing, five minutes or so max.
Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day Laundry Detergent in Lavender — My boyfriend hates scented laundry detergent, but loves this one. Almost as much as I do! HE-washer-capable, but also fine for regular machines, this stuff cleans clothing so well and leaves a very pleasant, calming light scent on clean clothes. Even coworkers with big-time perfume allergies ask me what I’m wearing when I have just-cleaned clothes on! This detergent also comes in a basil scent, a bluebell scent, and honeysuckle, but I can’t attest to how heavy or light the scents of those versions are.
Forever New — This product is incredible for anything with spandex in it — bras, activewear, you name it. Even my Victoria’s Secret bras, which tend to stretch out quickly, snap back into shape after being washed in this stuff.
True Laundry Detergent — The first time I used this detergent, I thought I hadn’t put enough in my washing machine because there were so few suds. Turns out that’s by design! I notice my clothing is exceptionally soft when I use this stuff, so it’s great for tees, shorts, mixed-composition denim, that kind of thing. It has a light scent after washing but I notice that once the clothing is dry I can’t smell anything except clean clothing.
TYLER Glamorous Wash, Diva — If you don’t mind scented detergent, this stuff is so great for athletic wear and delicates!! It definitely has a strong scent yet it works so well to clean tough scents and sweat. A little goes a very long way with this detergent; I’m always tempted to add more to the washer but you really only need a bit in each load. If my boyfriend wasn’t so scent-averse we’d use this on our sheets and towels. For now, I’m the best-smelling runner on the East Side esplanade in Manhattan. 🙂
Le Blanc® Original Linen Wash — Perfect for sheets, curtains and cloth shower curtains as well as linen clothing, I love the light lavender scent of Le Blanc® too. Bonus: our kitties are no longer interested in scratching or shredding our curtains or bed linens since we started using this!!
The Laundress Wool & Cashmere Shampoo — I’m a longtime Laundress fan and with good reason — my favorite cashmere sweater from 2008 is still going strong! I often get asked where I got it as though it’s a current season item. The secret with using this stuff is doing your laundry at a time when you can be attentive to it. As soon as the cycle is done I pull my cashmere out and gently tug it back into shape, and lay it flat to dry. What raises this product over other cashmere detergents for me is the lack of ‘wet wool’ scent when the wash cycle is done, and how over time it preserves my clothing so well. The Laundress makes several wonderful cleaning products for delicates that I use and love.
Woolite — Awesome on delicates, including silk, lace, wool and cashmere. You don’t need very much per load. Works great for hand-washing or in the machine.
Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day Dryer Sheets, Lavender — Much like the detergent listed above, I love the light and calming lavender scent of these dryer sheets! There are multiple scents to choose from if lavender isn’t your thing.
Bounce Outdoor Fresh Fabric Softener Sheets — Good ol’ Bounce still works wonders, and this particular scent is heavenly. Like some of the other products mentioned in this post, Bounce works for more than just drying your clothing with a great scent! These 19 uses are pretty awesome.
Heart Felt Wool Dryer Balls — For people who have given up on dryer sheets, these are a fantastic alternative! My sister is a huge fan and got a set for my mom, who’s also a convert. I’m not quite there yet myself but I have to admit they are pretty cool. My sis drops essential oils on hers and her clothing comes out just as soft as dryer sheets make them. These are very affordable (and reusable!); here’s an even less expensive set and a set with hearts on it (which let’s be real, is the set I’d go for)!
Ready to shop? See all the products mentioned in this post in two handy lists, my Laundry Shopping List and my Pantry Laundry Shopping List.
Some final tips & tricks for washing and drying your laundry
Here are some miscellaneous tips I’ve learned to help me do my laundry.
:: Have an item that’s wrinkled? Throw it in the dryer for 15 minutes on low or medium with wet bath towels.
:: If a stain doesn’t come out the first time you wash an item, don’t dry it! Re-treat it, allow to sit for 15 minutes, and then wash it again.
:: Separate lint producers (like towels & blankets) from lint magnets (such as corduroy & fleece).
:: Want advice on how to remove specific kinds of stains, from red wine to spaghetti to baby formula? Tide has a comprehensive guide.
:: Washing wool and cashmere with lavender or cedar-scented cleaning agents helps keep moths and other pests away.
What else would you like to know how to clean? What sections should I add to this post? Do you use and enjoy any of the products I love and mentioned in this post?
Some very lovely pieces there. I really like that green blouse, and the leather choker with the green stone.
I also like this top – it's kind of OTS but with coverage. And pretty colors. https://www.whitehouseblackmarket.com/store/produ…
Lovely embroidery on that trench, and a cotton-poly mix to boot. I skip synthetics, so most of the dresses don't work for me.
Remember when Anthro used to have less expensive cotton dresses for hot summer days hidden in the lounge section? Looks like Lilka is delivering: https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/painters-palet…?
Oh nice, that is pretty cute!!
That is a very cute blouse!
There is a store near me but I really never go it, will have to take a look (near our banana republic). My issue is if I do a once around and don't see anything I like, I probably won't go back in for another 3 years. I still visit BR for the work pants although JCrew has those also.
Could you tell me more about their jewelry? Looking online I see a lot of great styles but I'm leery of quality–more specifically I hate the look of a gold tone that looks overly bright, cheap and plastic-y. I have a few pieces from Anthro and LOFT that use elements like this and they aren't my favorite.
Ok, thanks for corrupting me. Again ?? I'm going to try them out!
Wow!!! An Amazing article Roxy and it's soooooo helpful. Thanks ??
bookmarked it in my iPad. Will use the ideas quite often I'm sure.
Such a helpful article! I'd love to see a deep dive into the quality of different types of fabric. For example, the whys behind your disdain for rayon 🙂
Hmm I'm not quite sure what you mean. As I say in the article I dislike rayon because it breaks down quickly and too easily. What else would you like to know?
You're welcome! This one has been in progress for quite awhile, and I'm delighted you enjoyed it!!
?? yes loved it
Thank you for deciphering those silly symbols. I now know what they mean!
I too never learned to do laundry as a kid. It was a challenge when I got to college and was suddenly responsible for it myself. I turned some stuff pink accidentally. I've come a long way since then.
Don't feel too badly! I was taught how to do laundry from a young age and I still manage the occasional load of pinkified whites! All it takes is one little red sock :^)
Thanks for the excellent guide, Roxy!
It's good to know I'm not the only one who's done that!
Great article! I've also found that my new washer has a “refresh” cycle that uses steam. This is different from the “wrinkle free” cycle. This allows me to throw uber delicate things in there as well as sweaters or things that aren't stained, but just need a quick pick me up! Works amazing! Comes out smell free and unwrinkled!
Oh wow! I just checked, and my washer has that cycle too!!! o_O (We finally have our own washer/dryer IN OUR APARTMENT and I'd forgotten what it was like after so many years of using the building's or a laundromat.)
Haha! Awesome! I've also used this cycle on some dry clean only dresses! If there's a stain I just spot clean and then put in the “refresh cycle”…. this has saved me so much money! Just make sure your water line is connected to your dryer as well. My mom has this button on her dryer but never hooked it up to the water line, which defeats the purpose of the cycle since it's the steam that cleans and refreshes.
Also… meant to say… this option is on the DRYER not the washer!
I *love*love*love* this article Roxy! Thank you so much I'm bookmarking this!
Yay! You're welcome. 🙂
Great post, Roxy! I'm becoming such a fabric nerd: it's great to hear how I can avoid the dry cleaner! I only dry clean coats, because I'm frugal 😉 lol
Ha, I totally get that. Mostly I just hate carrying my dry cleaning home — it's so heavy!! I only do it when I get our Jeep over there which seems like a waste, or when my BF will pick it up for me. It kinda makes me miss the days of living in a full-service luxury building with a doorman and a concierge.
thanks for the article! I avoid dry cleaning or buying a things that are dry clean only (well based on the fabrics mentioned, like rayon – I avoid rayon or viscose, as they are too unpredictable). I like the Laundress products and forever new. I also just got a sweater stone and lanolin wash for washing those wool sweaters (dressage coat) that I hope will decrease pilling….
Oh my gosh!! This is one fantastic article/resource you've put together! Holy guacamole! This is really awesome! Thank youuuuuuu!!
So delighted you found it helpful!
What a great article – thanks Roxy!
Though I can't imagine not washing my jeans every wear or two. Never heard of not washing them, ewww.
Off to check the labels on my silks that I avoid wearing because I don't want to dry clean them.
Another reason not to use dry cleaners is the environmental impacts of the process. Here's a primer on it: https://sfenvironment.org/sites/default/files/fli…
Dry cleaners are majors contributors to groundwater contamination and are often difficult to monitor for violations. http://www.ccim.com/cire-magazine/articles/cleani… http://www.environmental-law.net/key-practice-are…
Right?? I cannot imagine never washing my jeans.
Great articles about the impact of dry cleaning, thanks evb. ??
Excellent article! Thanks for this 🙂
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